Monday, April 28, 2008

First Contact with Guy Darty aka Paul Grant and His Profile

This is the first contact that I had from this man (and I use the term loosely - he is an animal):


Message:
How good to see you here, it was just so enjoyable to read your profile, to look at you and then to read your profile once more, so easy to imagine all that you said about yourself being true. IN fact, part of my interest is in wanting sooo much to find a workout partner to enjoy the gym with, that is sooo rare out there. Well, not sure what your situation is right now, or if distance is an absolute deal breaker for you, but in any case, I had to write and say HELLO and to wish you a really grand day! How I hope you are doing well, you deserve something precious coming your way soon! Yours, Paul


I thought that was such a sweet note and I was also very interested in finding a man who would also be my workout partner...............So I read his profile (This was on Americansingles.com):



worthalook2you 102319255 Divorced,
Man seeking Woman For: A Date, Friendship, Long-term Relationship, Intimacy/Physical Chemistry, Activity Partner, Email/Chat
From: Atlanta, GA
Age: 51 years old

I am hard working and have goals I am pressing towards, but life is grand and has to be enjoyed for all of its wonders. Of course, all that life offers is so much better when shared with another. We all have baggage in life, but second chances (even thirds!) are important to offer others as well as receive. Oh... I LOVE to eat, don't you? Then let's hit the diner circuit together!! On a more serious note, I do feel it is very important that I lay out on the table an issue that must be dealt with between myself and someone who may consider discovering what might unfold for us. Yes, it is about sex, goodness! So, if this makes you squirm, or flusters you or disappoints you right away, then have a grand life, no need to go forward. However, though I am not about easy sex (is there such a thing, ha?) I am also NOT just looking for a partner to visit antique stores with (though that is fun too!). Celebrating true passion as real adults is VERY important to me, but notice: I am speaking of passion, real passion. Ok, more about this, and the key to me, is in the next section about YOU, or who I hope to meet, thanks!


Lifestyle


I am looking for:
A Date, Friendship, Long-term Relationship, Intimacy/Physical Chemistry, Activity Partner, Email/Chat
Relocation:
I'm not sure if I want to relocate


Marital status
Divorced


Plan on having children:
I don't plan on having children


Custody Situation:
I have no kids


I smoke:
Non-Smoker


I drink:
Socially


Activity level
Selected activities



Physical Info


I am:
6' 0" (183 cm)
I weigh:
210 Pounds (95.5 kg)
My hair is:
Brown
My eyes are:
Hazel
My body style is:
Athletic/Fit

Background


I grew up in:

My ethnicity is:
Caucasian/White
I speak:
English
My Religion:
Christian
I studied or am interested in:

I consider intelligence:
Medium Importance
My education:
Master's Degree
Occupation
Executive/General Mgt/Consulting
Occupation description:

Annual income:
Will tell you later

I am looking for:
Most any characteristic about the woman I am seeking is fine and acceptable to me, whatever her age or size or shape or abilities/disabiliti es..the most important aspect for me would be your sense of comfort and confidence within yourself, about your life so far, about your sensuality, about your playfulness and warmth. I am not looking for any one night stands, so move on playa ladies! But I am not just looking for someone to play Scrabble with either (though I do enjoy the game!!). A robust appetite, a sweet laugh and a strong libido are all very essential. But here is the issue, and why I suppose I am looking for a very, very special lady: due to a bungled operation (which saved my life, thanks!), I was left virtually unable toreach "satisfaction"(which has messed up my life, no thanks!). Yes, there is some ED also. HOWEVER (and thank goodness there is a "however" here!), you will find me to be an extremely passionate man, able to share and celebrate every passion with you deeply in the most creative and precious ways. In other words, there is no doubt that this special woman I may meet will be WELL satisfied and comforted. She will be "special" in that she will have the insight, the maturity, and the care to not feel guilt if I am not able to make it across the line with her, but instead, will see in my eyes that her contentment will have become ours together. Whew, that was hard to say.



Personality and Interests


My personality is best described as:
Conservative/Clean Cut, Easygoing/Flexible/Open-Minded, Friendly/Kind, High Energy, Humorous/Witty, Intellectual, Low Maintenance, Sensitive/Nurturing/Loving, Romantic, Self Confident, Serious/Responsible, Sophisticated/Worldly, Spiritual
In my free time, I like to:
Art Galleries, Beach, Bookstores, Coffee Houses, Live Theater, Movies, Museums, Opera, Parks, Restaurants, Symphony
My favorite physical activities:
Dancing, Hiking/Walking, Swimming/Diving/Water Polo, Working Out/Weightlifting
My favorite food(s):
American, Barbecue, Cajun/Southern, Chinese/Dim Sum, French, German, Greek, Indian, Japanese/Sushi, Mexican, Middle Eastern, Seafood, Soul Food, Southwestern, Thai, Vegetarian/Organic, Vietnamese

My favorite music: Alternative, Blues, Christian & Gospel, Classic Rock n' Roll, Classical, Country, Easy Listening, Folk, Jazz, Modern Rock n' Roll, New Age, Opera, Instrumental, Acoustic

I like to read: Fiction, Magazines, Non-Fiction, Poetry, Trade Journals

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